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April is Child Abuse Prevention Month. As part of our global efforts to help protect kids from abuse, bullying, and other harmful behavior, each day this month, we will share a time-tested skill from our Kidpower® 30-Skill-Challenge Coaching Handbook.
Skill #12: Why Problems Should NOT Be Secrets. Child molesters don’t want to get caught, so they try to pick on children who they think won’t tell. Kids need to know what to say if someone asks them not to tell. They are safer if they know they can talk to adults they trust about problems, no matter how big, small, silly, or serious those problems might seem. This coaching conversation can help to prepare kids to not keep secrets.
This full practice is a part of the Kidpower® 30-Skill-Challenge Coaching Handbook.
Kids are safer when they understand that problems should not be secrets, even if someone you care about will be upset or embarrassed that you told.
They are safer when they can talk to adults about problems, no matter how big, small, silly, or serious those problems might seem.
Say, “Problems should not be secrets.” Coach the child to say this aloud, too.
Say, “Let’s practice. Pretend I’m your friend. Pretend I say, ‘I have a big problem. I’m going to tell you about it, but you have to promise not to tell anyone.’”
Coach the child to respond calmly, “Problems should not be secrets.”
With younger kids, you could add, “Let’s get help.”
With older kids, you can add practice saying, “I want to be a good friend, but keeping problems a secret is dangerous. That can make problems worse. Let’s talk about how you can get help from adults who will listen.”
For a FREE explanation on the simple methods you can use to teach children to use each of these skills, download the Kidpower® 30-Skill-Challenge Coaching Handbook on our website –this ebook will be FREE of charge in English, Spanish, and Arabic in honor of April as Child Abuse Prevention Month.
Please share this skill with others. Let’s work together to teach young people to take charge of their safety, increase self-confidence, and develop healthy, positive relationships!
Published: April 12, 2019 | Last Updated: April 12, 2019