Child Protection

Child Protection

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Creating ‘Circles of Safety’ to protect and empower our kids – and ourselves!

As the news floods us with reports of tragic, frightening events, it can be hard not to become anxious.

Unfortunately, worrying does not make us safer – it just makes us feel helpless.

We cannot give young people a perfect world. We CAN work as Child Protection Advocates and Safety Leaders to create ‘Circles of Safety‘ in our families, schools, and communities.

Together, we can protect the children, teens, and other vulnerable people in our lives from harm – and empower them with knowledge and skills for taking charge of their own well-being.

To learn more, click on the “What Can I Do?” actions below. You can also take or organize one of our live online programs or use the self-paced courses in our Kidpower Online Learning Center. If you have any questions, please contact us!

Use our Safety Leadership Initiative messages with your family, friends, school, organization, workplace, and community!

“What can I do?”

Make the Kidpower Protection Promise

Too often, kids and adults struggle with their problems alone because they believe that their adults are too busy or will be upset if they ask for help.

The Kidpower Protection Promise grew out of our years of coaching adults to be very specific in making sure kids know they care, no matter what.

Take one minute to watch this inspiring and moving Kidpower Protection Promise video. Then, print, post, share, and discuss our FREE posters.

Teach these child protection lessons

 

Woman in hijab sitting and teaching two young girlsYES, you can teach children of any age skills to help them be safe from harm including abuse, abduction, and assault – without scaring them or giving them upsetting information about possible danger.

Start with these 3 Child Protection Lessons from our best-selling book Doing Right by Our Kids, which uses a “safety at all levels” approach showing how to apply Kidpower skills, strategies, and values as well as other best practices to protect young people at home, with friends and family, at school, in sports and recreational activities, at college, and from harmful social issues such as prejudice.

The topics addressed in the 3 Child Protection Lessons are:

  • “How can I keep my baby safe?” – including 5 behaviors that should instantly raise red flags for you
  • “My child is being steamrolled by the system!”
  • Let Us Listen: A powerful message from a spiritual leader about child safety

For more skills to use yourself and practice with kids, see our Kidpower Emotional Safety Skills for All Ages

Use and Share the '30-Skills Coaching Handbook'

Parents, educators, and other caring adults around the world are downloading and using the Kidpower 30-Skills Coaching Handbook, which is available in English, Spanish, and other languages. This step-by-step teaching tool provides vital ‘People Safety Skills” that prepare children and teens to take charge of their emotional and physical safety, increase their confidence, and develop healthy relationships.

Please teach these skills yourself and share the link with your personal and professional networks.

Kidpower 30 Skills Coaching Handbook cover

 

Accept uncertainty, project confidence

Creating Circles of Safety by staying connected with the ones you love!

Message from Kidpower Founder/ED Irene van der Zande:

Many years ago, I was teaching a child protection workshop for about 100 parents after there had been a case of abuse in their community. One mother raised her hand and said plaintively, “I am so TIRED of being afraid! WHEN I can I stop being worried about the safety of my daughter?”

I smiled sympathetically and asked, ‘How old is your child?”

The mother sighed and said, “Three!”

“Oh, dear!” I replied, “Guess what? My kids are adults, and I still worry about them. And my mother is in her eighties, and she STILL worries about me!”

Everyone in the room nodded their heads with great empathy as the mother asked, “How do you BEAR it?”

It was my turn to sigh as I admitted, “Sometimes it is hard. But constantly worrying just makes us miserable and steals our joy in life without making anyone safer.”

And then I continued, “What has worked for me is to be at peace with accepting uncertainty because some things are out of our control. Doing this frees me to find joy in what is good in my life and in our world – and allows me to focus on what I CAN do to make a positive difference. The skills that we teach in Kidpower truly can protect our kids and ourselves most of the time.” The mother thanked me and then we went on with our class.

A key child protection skill is knowing what to do if a child comes to you for help. Our article What to Do If A Child Reports Possible Abuse, Bullying, Harassment, or Anything Else That Bothers Them provides 7 practical steps that adults can take to support them.

Remember, kids need our hope, not our despair

Kid's flower painting with smiley faces. Quote in top left corner.Over and over, parents and teachers, and other caring adults tell us, “Every new tragedy in the news breaks my heart. How can I take care of my own feelings while protecting my kids?”

It is normal to have overwhelming feelings or grief in the face of news about tragedies caused by violence, natural disasters, or accidents – and we deserve support for these feelings. At the same time, we need to avoid getting immersed in despair so that we can focus on what we need to do to protect the well being of our kids and our loved ones.

When young people see their adults feeling hopeless and helpless, this can cause them tremendous panic, stress, and anxiety. How we model being powerful and resilient in the face of trouble can have a huge and positive impact on their long-term well-being.

Here are 3 ways you can get support for your feelings in the aftermath of a tragedy:

  1. Stay aware of what you say within earshot of kids
  2. Get help if you are feeling anxious or depressed
  3. Live your life to the fullest while taking charge of what IS under your control

Read more in When Disaster Strikes: Finding Emotional Balance in Traumatic Times

Help kids regain emotional balance in scary times

No matter where we live, sometimes our sense of security can become overwhelmed by news of frightening threats of violence – and by tragic acts of violence. When this happens, it’s time to take extra steps to protect the emotional and physical safety of our children — and of ourselves.

Kidpower’s Founding Principle is that the safety and well-being of each person are more important than anyone’s embarrassment, inconvenience, or offense, including our own.

Instead of letting our actions be based on fear of upset, discomfort, or disappointment, we can choose to ‘Put Safety FIRST’ for ourselves and, especially, for our children.

To protect our children and ourselves from harm, we can:

  1. Create emotional safety.
  2. Stay away from trouble.
  3. Focus on what we CAN do.

See How to Choose Safety in Scary Times for more.

Please also read and share these articles with your friends, colleagues, and community:

Model, use, and teach consent, boundary-setting, & advocacy

Learn more about how to teach boundary and advocacy skills at our self-paced Child Protection Institute.

Advocacy and boundary-setting skills are powerful safety skills at any age. They help people be safer from bullying, abuse, intimate partner violence, and other harm – and they also strengthen relationships of all kinds.

One of the best ways to teach kids advocacy and boundary-setting skills – including how to express and withdraw consent – is to use them yourself. When you model how to use these skills every day, in all types of communication, young people in your life will see firsthand how they work.

Use these resources to get started – and see our Relationship Skills page for more!

Make a Donation to Keep Kids SAFE!

Please consider helping Kidpower to provide child protection resources like the ones on this page with your donation in any amount.

Thanks to generous support from people like you, Kidpower gives scholarships for training and low cost or free educational resources so that people everywhere have access to our essential services regardless of their ability to pay.

With your help, we can continue to provide effective and empowering personal safety education to protect people of all ages and abilities from harm and to prepare them with knowledge and skills for taking charge of the well-being of themselves and their loved ones – now and for generations into the future.

Child Protection Steps to Protect and Empower Kids and Youth

In today’s troubled times, more than ever, all children need to know that they can turn to and trust an adult for help. Will you take a few minutes to learn about and share these 4 important steps that can make a lasting difference in a child’s life? You can join us in our goal to encourage every adult – parent, teacher, mentor, safety officer, neighbor, everyone – to make SURE that the children and teens in your life can count on you for help. We invite you to help transform the fear of bullying, violence, and abuse into a future of lifelong safety and success for today’s youth.

Be a strong safety leader

Kidpower’s founding principle is that safety and well-being are more important than anyone’s embarrassment, inconvenience, or offense.

This can be easy to say – and hard to do. It means doing more than just saying that safety is important. It means showing that we put safety first with our words and actions – all the time. This is ‘safety leadership’.

The safety leadership of adults is necessary to protect children and teens, in person and online, until they have developed the skills they need to take charge of their own safety.

Use these resources to become an even more effective safety leader:

Listen. Notice. Take Action.

Take action when you notice harmful behavior:

  • Say, “That’s not safe.” Or, “That seems disrespectful.” Or, “This is against our values.”

Teach and practice skills that can help prevent the harmful behavior. These resources can help:

Reach out. Step in. Get help.

Do something to make a difference.

  • Reach out by asking and listening.
    Say, “What’s going on? What will help make things better?”
  • When you can, step in powerfully and respectfully to stop unsafe or disrespectful behavior.
    Say, “That doesn’t look safe!”
  • Get help when you don’t know what to do.
Prepare kids with knowledge and skills, not our despair

Empower young people to take charge of their safety and well being.

  • Tell kids often,
    “You have the right to be treated with safety and respect – and the responsibility to act safely and respectfully towards yourself and others.”
  • Teach kids how to prevent and solve problems with people. Practice with them so that they know exactly what to do.
  • Guide kids to uphold these values and use these skills in daily life.
Use strategies from our bestseller "Doing Right by Our Kids"

Take action to ensure safety in your home, neighborhood, school, place of business, place of worship, social groups, and community with our bestseller, Doing Right by Our Kids

The safety of kids is everybody’s business! In this book, you will discover how to:

  • Use the powerful ‘Safety at All Levels’ model, beginning at home and then extending to neighbors, schools, sports, and beyond.
  • Become a positive, powerful advocate for child safety, confidence, and respect.
  • Recognize potential trouble and take charge of problems that put kids at risk.
  • Persuade organizations at all levels to take action to protect the young people in their care

“Doing Right by Our Kids is a field guide for practicing courage. It will arm you with the knowledge and skills you need to know when, why, and how to act to protect your kids.”
— Dan Heath, New York Times Bestselling Author

Child Protection Resources to Keep Kids Safe

WorkshopsArticlesBooks & Handouts Contact Us

Find videos, lessons, practice guides, and activities you can use now in the Online Learning Center – or choose a printed publication you can use to help your kids, students, loved ones, and others learn age-appropriate, ability-appropriate social-emotional safety skills! Contact us with any questions or needs.

Child Protection Video Courses and Live Workshops

Our programs teach people of all ages how to stay safe from abuse, bullying, and other harm. We also teach most of these skills in our Kidpower workshops and in the Kidpower Online Learning Center self-paced video courses. Start using them on your own or to help your students, clients, loved ones, or others build skills to be safe.

Learn strategies to protect yourself and others from the global leaders in social-emotional safety skills education! You can:

Every workshop is unique! In the planning stage, we listen and ask questions about your needs and priorities. Then, we provide a service tailored just for you. Browse through some of our workshop options in our Flyer Gallery.

Child Protection Articles

Child Protection Books, Guides, and Posters

One Strong Move Book Front Cover

Kidpower 30-Skills Coaching Handbook

Use the Kidpower 30-Skills Coaching Handbook to teach children and teens to take charge of their safety. Available in 5 languages, these short, step-by-step, illustrated lessons teach core skills for staying safe from abuse and bullying and for having more fun and fewer problems with people!
Learn More & Download

Kidpower Safety Comics Front Cover

Free Kidpower Coloring Book

The Kidpower Coloring Books show children using key People Safety skills to keep themselves safe. Available in 14 languages!
Learn More & Download | Español

Kidpower Book Front Cover

Kidpower Illustrated Skills Guides

The Kidpower Skills Guides provide illustrations and directions on how to explain and teach several of our core “People Safety’ skills.
Learn More

Confident Kids Teaching Guides and Posters

6 Safety Skills posters and a teaching guide that you can download and share with your parent group, school, youth organization, sports organization, faith group, or professional staff.
Learn More

Kidpower Safety Comics Front Cover

Kidpower Safety Tips for Parents, Teachers, Coaches, and Other Caregivers

Use our Kidpower’s Safety Tips Handout to start teaching children how to be safe from abuse, bullying, harassment, assault, and other violence. Available in English, French, Spanish, Chinese, Vietnamese, Romanian, and Swedish.
Learn More

Spanish/English Bilingual Book Front Cover

Fullpower Personal Safety Tips for Teens and Adults

Use our Fullpower Safety Tips for teens and adults handout to learn to be safe from abuse, bullying, harassment, assault, and other violence. Available in English, French, Spanish, Chinese, Vietnamese, Romanian, Arabic, and Tagalog.
Learn More

Kidpower Safety Comics Front Cover

Safety for Kids on the Way to School Checklist

A readiness checklist for parents, teachers, and other caregivers for how to prepare kids before they go out without adult protection. Available in English, French, Spanish, Chinese, Swedish, and Arabic.
Learn More

Spanish/English Bilingual Book Front Cover

People Safety Bill of Rights for People with Disabilities (and for Everyone, Everywhere)

People Safety means being emotionally and physically safe with your self and other people. People of ALL abilities have the right to be safe. Use this Bill of Rights in your home, work, school, healthcare facility, community organization, or youth program to help people understand their rights and responsibilities to keep themselves and each other safe. Available in English, Spanish, and Arabic.
Learn More

Kidpower Safety Comics Front Cover

Kidpower Protection Promise Poster

The Kidpower Protection Promise Poster (PDF) from International Child Protection Month is available in English, French, Spanish, Arabic, Vietnamese, Romanian, Kurdish, and German.
Learn More 

Kidpower Safety Comics Front Cover

Child Protection and Safety Posters

Use these colorful child protection and safety posters as regular reminders and discussion prompts about your commitment to the safety and well being of children and yourselves. Download and display in your home, school, healthcare facility, gym, and youth organizations.
Learn More 

One Strong Move Book Front Cover

Kidpower 30-Skills Coaching Handbook

Use the Kidpower 30-Skills Coaching Handbook to teach children and teens to take charge of their safety. Available in 5 languages, these short, step-by-step, illustrated lessons teach core skills for staying safe from abuse and bullying and for having more fun and fewer problems with people!
Learn More & Download

Kidpower Safety Comics Front Cover

Free Kidpower Coloring Book

The Kidpower Coloring Books show children using key People Safety skills to keep themselves safe. Available in 14 languages!
Learn More & Download | Español

Kidpower Book Front Cover

Kidpower Illustrated Skills Guides

The Kidpower Skills Guides provide illustrations and directions on how to explain and teach several of our core “People Safety’ skills.
Learn More

Confident Kids Teaching Guides and Posters

6 Safety Skills posters and a teaching guide that you can download and share with your parent group, school, youth organization, sports organization, faith group, or professional staff.
Learn More

Kidpower Safety Comics Front Cover

Kidpower Safety Tips for Parents, Teachers, Coaches, and Other Caregivers

Use our Kidpower’s Safety Tips Handout to start teaching children how to be safe from abuse, bullying, harassment, assault, and other violence. Available in English, French, Spanish, Chinese, Vietnamese, Romanian, and Swedish.
Learn More

Spanish/English Bilingual Book Front Cover

Fullpower Personal Safety Tips for Teens and Adults

Use our Fullpower Safety Tips for teens and adults handout to learn to be safe from abuse, bullying, harassment, assault, and other violence. Available in English, French, Spanish, Chinese, Vietnamese, Romanian, Arabic, and Tagalog.
Learn More

Kidpower Safety Comics Front Cover

Safety for Kids on the Way to School Checklist

A readiness checklist for parents, teachers, and other caregivers for how to prepare kids before they go out without adult protection. Available in English, French, Spanish, Chinese, Swedish, and Arabic.
Learn More

Spanish/English Bilingual Book Front Cover

People Safety Bill of Rights for People with Disabilities (and for Everyone, Everywhere)

People Safety means being emotionally and physically safe with your self and other people. People of ALL abilities have the right to be safe. Use this Bill of Rights in your home, work, school, healthcare facility, community organization, or youth program to help people understand their rights and responsibilities to keep themselves and each other safe. Available in English, Spanish, and Arabic.
Learn More

Kidpower Safety Comics Front Cover

Kidpower Protection Promise Poster

The Kidpower Protection Promise Poster (PDF) from International Child Protection Month is available in English, French, Spanish, Arabic, Vietnamese, Romanian, Kurdish, and German.
Learn More 

Kidpower Safety Comics Front Cover

Child Protection and Safety Posters

Use these colorful child protection and safety posters as regular reminders and discussion prompts about your commitment to the safety and well being of children and yourselves. Download and display in your home, school, healthcare facility, gym, and youth organizations.
Learn More 

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